We have been busy for the last month. We went out of town for Thanksgiving, our kids have had a lot of activities, and I had a medical procedure. These kept us busy and distracted enough that my husband’s control of me was at best minimum. We spent Thanksgiving break visiting some dear family friends out of town. When we are out of town visiting friends or family and staying in their home we are obviously not going to engage in any physical correction or connection. Usually we get a guest room or a child’s room without a lock so even the hope of sexual connection isn’t there. No connective or corrective spankings will be occurring under those circumstances. The last time we were visiting my sister we were able to go away to a hotel on an anniversary for a night so we did get some time there. Yet that was only one night out of ten. There was lots of connective spanking and sex on that one night making up for lost time!